Stankoven had five shots on goal and finished even in plus-minus, so there were some good moments.
"There wasn't a guy who didn't have some good moments, there wasn't a guy who didn't have some moments for improvement. That's we coach at the development level, so we have to do our job and show some of those things that were done well and how the play developed in order to get those good moments."
Part of the task of coaching at a developmental level also is recognizing that different players have different paths. For players like Stankoven, Wyatt Johnston and Mavrik Bourque, there is a real chance to dream about playing in the NHL this year. For others, this tournament could be about landing a regular shift in the AHL. Either way, each player has to slow down and take it step by step.
"They know, these guys know," Graham said of the pressure faced by each individual. "They understand what's going on. I can't stress enough that you have to stay focused on the current game, and you have to stay focused on your next shift. It's a lot to ask and I think we learned a hard lesson today. I think we let our minds slip. It's a learning moment."
And, to be honest, being humbled can sometimes be the best thing for a young player -- or even a group of them.
"You get a lot of emotions at this tournament, especially early," Graham said. "Some are here for the first time and they're naturally nervous, others might get a little ahead of themselves if you're thinking about camp or other opportunities. And you have to stay present, and that's probably the biggest challenge for any athlete."
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Mike Heikais a Senior Staff Writer for DallasStars.com and has covered the Stars since 1994. Follow him on Twitter @MikeHeika.