As young boys, Jake, Keegan and Josh were like so many kids with dads in the NHL. They hung around the locker room, sometimes skating before practice. But soon enough, that little perk didn't feel quite right.
"As soon as I got to 12 years old, I kind of shied away from being around there because that's when I realized I wanted to be one of those guys," Keegan Lowe, 23, said. "I wanted to be able to experience it when I earned it, and not just hang around. I realized one day that could be me."
Jake Chelios smiled at that recollection, having experienced the same uncomfortable feelings.
"It gets to that point where you're that older kid skating before the practice," he said. "As you get closer to 18 and guys close to your age are playing in the League, you start to float away from the rink a little bit more."
Glen Wesley will have an impact on the futures of all three sons. As Carolina's director of defensemen development, his job is to make them NHL-ready. Carolina drafted Keegan Lowe in the third round (No. 73) of the 2011 NHL Draft and took Josh Wesley in the fourth round (No. 96) in the 2014 draft. Jake Chelios was undrafted after four years at Michigan State. Lowe and Wesley play with a physical edge; Chelios has the offensive smarts to be a power-play quarterback. Glen Wesley believes all three are on track to play in the NHL someday.
"There's a lot of positive things they all do in games and some minor things they need to be tweaking as the game goes along," he said. "You let them digest it, then you come in the next day and you talk about it."
The younger Wesley, 20, has no problem with the arrangement.
"Once he's at the rink, he becomes 'Coach,' " said Josh, who is beginning his professional career this season. "He's obviously my dad, but I look at him as a coach, someone I can learn from. Usually when we're at home, he never brings up anything hockey."
Glen's job duties dictate he will have a hands-on hockey relationship with his son. Trying to walk the line between parent and coach isn't ideal, but he keeps his emotional investment to a minimum.
"Everybody is going to make mistakes, and all of them are very correctable," the elder Wesley said. "But you can't live and die with them playing every shift; otherwise, you end up pulling your hair out."
All three fathers know the odds are against their sons achieving the same level of success they enjoyed, but that's only part of why the kids must blaze their own path.
"It's a different game than when I played because of all the structure and the different types of systems teams play," Chris Chelios said. "As tough as it is to make it now, so many players but only so many jobs, he's really fortunate to be in position to get an opportunity. Hopefully with a little luck and hard work, he makes the most of it."
That's all any of the dads can ask. Kevin Lowe already has witnessed Keegan's NHL debut in 2014-15, a two-game stint with the Hurricanes. The Lowes hope it is just the beginning.