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Ever wonder where Matt Martin's outgoing, approachable and chatty personality come from?

The Isles forward says take a walk through Target with his mom Dawn and it's pretty clear, pretty quickly.

"You'll be at Target for six hours because she'll talk to anybody and go down any aisle and start up a conversation," Martin said.

Martin's mom influenced his personality, but also his hockey career in a big way. Dawn was a stay-at-home mom, taking care of three kids between Martin, his older brother Justin and older sister Brittany She drove them to practices and games and was always up in the stands cheering them on.

"Just being at every single game," Martin said. " My mom was always up there sitting in the stands," Martin said. "She was absolutely massive in my hockey career. I wouldn't be here without her."

Martin's parents felt it was important to be involved in their kids' lives. His dad worked midnight shifts to free up his days, which allowed both parents to do things like drive them to school and manage three kid's sports schedules. Those sacrifices might not resonate with an eight-year-old kid, but now as an adult and soon-to-be parent, Martin has a different appreciation for everything his mom did for him.

"That's got to be one of the most selfless things of all time when you spend your entire life caring for your children and making sure you're there for them," Martin said. "I have nothing but great respect for my mom, and stay at home moms in general who sacrifice their own goals and opportunities in life and things that maybe they wanted to achieve to allow their kids to accomplish those things."

Hockey dads have long been romanticized, but hockey moms play just as much of a foundational role, especially in the lives of the current Islanders.

Take Jane Mayfield for instance, who was the de facto equipment manager for her son's teams growing up. She patched up rips, sewed on stops signs and on more than one occasion designed and produced third jerseys. When Scott flirted with quitting hockey as a kid due to how uncomfortable his socks were in his skates, Jane worked her magic, made the right cuts in the right places and fixed it.

In addition to driving Johnny, Sam and David Boychuk to practices and games, Audrey Boychuk played an administrative role for the boys' hockey association growing up. She'd organize events and fundraisers to support their teams, a community contribution appreciated outside of the Boychuk household.

"All the moms played a big part in our hockey careers," Boychuk said. "They are always waking up in the morning, taking us to practice… Some practices, as the parents know, aren't exactly at opportune times. They've always been there, they've supported us and wanted us to thrive."

Brock Nelson grew up in a hockey family, with a grandfather on Team USAs 1960 gold medal squad, an uncle on the 1980 Miracle on Ice team and a successful hockey stick company to boot. But Nelson thinks about the impact his mom, Jeri, - a figure skater - had on his career. After all, she was the one who put him on skates before his third birthday (figure skates, initially) and was there to encourage and support him growing up in Warroad.

"My mom played a big part," Nelson said. "My mom was always there for me, giving me rides, sacrificing, paying for hockey and things you don't know or think about when you're younger. As you get older you realize how expensive hockey is and how much it takes a toll on the parents."

Now with a family of his own, Nelson sees and appreciates all the sacrifices his wife Karley, a former standout hockey player at Wisconsin, makes for his hockey career. She isn't quite a hockey mom yet - their son Beckett is two and their daughter Adelyne just turned one but she - along with the other moms on the team - do a lot behind the scenes, often by themselves when the team is on the road.

"Wives and moms probably don't get enough credit for how hard it is," Nelson said of raising and supporting a family. "We're home now and seeing it first-hand what they do day in and day out when we get to go travel, see different cities and play games. They are on call and on the job 24/7 and don't have a whole lot of time to themselves. They help us out and allow us to do what we do and have a family at the same time, which is pretty special."

So Nelson, Boychuk, Martin and the whole team will take some time out on Mother's Day to say thank you to the most important women in their hockey lives. They wouldn't be where they are today without them.