Anderson credits her daughter for being the strongest person she has ever met. She said Haven still lives as normal a life as possible for her with school and swim lessons and playdates with friends.
The good news is the lesions on her spine have been stable for two and a half years, so doctors are hopeful Haven can continue to stay that way.
"If we can make it, she'll be on the current clinical trial for two years," Anderson said, "and after that we're hopeful that maybe we'll be done. If it stays away and doesn't do anything, then we're going to stop treatment not this coming August, but the following August. If we can continue to just be stable, we'll try to stay stable forever."
Haven's mom said she was blown away when Duchene approached her about his idea for the auction, one he said he came up with while driving home from practice earlier this season.
"When he decided to do the auction I was like, 'Are you serious?' "Anderson said."At first I was like, 'You're giving up those skates? What is the matter with you?' He's like, 'No, these are the special ones.' I'm like, 'Oh my gosh, you're amazing.' He's amazing."
Anderson said raising funds for pediatric cancer is not easy, because there in not much backing from pharmaceutical companies.
"It's all a grassroots effort," Anderson said. "A lot of times it's just us parents getting together and having walks. It's like the whole bake sale idea, like, 'Let's have a bake sale to cure cancer.' But for him to put himself out there and say this is a cause he truly believes in and wants to help, it's just so wonderful for us."