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Madison Gay Hockey Association stresses inclusivity, fun

League provides chance to learn, enjoy sport in welcoming atmosphere

by Tracey Myers @Tramyers_NHL / Staff Writer

Christina Libs joined the Madison Gay Hockey Association six years ago and immediately felt at home.

"It was the first community I felt helped me understand my identity better," Libs said, "so I used it at an early stage of coming out to explain to people that I was queer. I told friends and family that I played hockey with the Madison Gay Hockey Association, and it became a way for me to share information about myself and identity at the time when I was actually coming out."

The MGHA was founded by Patrick Farabaugh in 2006. With 150 players among 10 teams, it's the largest gay hockey league in America. Preseason begins in September, with the season wrapping up in late March or early April. The league also has Sunday night scrimmages during the summer.

"We're the smallest market that has a gay hockey organization, proving that size doesn't matter in that regard," Farabaugh said of Madison, Wisconsin's capital, which has a population of just over 255,000.

"The majority [of players] are from Madison and surrounding suburbs. The first year, we added 12-15 players who drove in from Milwaukee (about 80 miles away), and even a player from Green Bay (nearly 140 miles away)."

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Farabaugh grew up in Merrillville, Indiana. Looking for a place where he'd be accepted for his sexuality, Farabaugh ran away to New York when he was 18. He eventually joined a gay hockey league there, finding acceptance and a community that "made me stay in New York longer than I probably would have." But after living in seven different states and various countries during a 10-year span, Farabaugh returned to the Midwest in 2005.

"If I was going to break the pattern of transience, I had to return to the part of the world I left," he said. "I chose Madison to build a permanent home."

He also built a home for gay hockey. Farabaugh aggressively recruited participants; if they didn't know how to play hockey, no problem -- he would help teach them.

"In years past, we would start the season with four weeks of clinics; once a week, every Sunday," MGHA vice president Tim Tender said. "Then we'd do two weeks of evaluations and challenge games, split by skill level. After that, two weeks of practice with a team, and then we would start games. We'd start the season in the first week in September, the first Sunday after Labor Day. We wouldn't get games until the first week in November. So it was almost two full months of gearing up for the league, learning how to play, basics. It's great for beginners."

Maggie Augustin was comfortable on skates after years of in-line skating, but she didn't know much about hockey. A self-described introvert, she said the league also brought her out of her shell.

"Besides learning an entirely new sport at 30, it helped me a lot with personal problems and challenging myself," said Augustin, member relations liaison on the MGHA board of directors. "I've played other sports for other groups for as long as I can remember, and I've never played in such a welcoming group, a group that wants to get other people involved and not just learning hockey. It's so much more, the community is a place to go besides your stereotypical bar scene for LGBTQ folks."

Word of mouth has been a recruiting tool. Sarah Bottjen was introduced to the league by Libs, one of her best friends.

"I didn't do it the first year because I was worried about starting a new sport," said Bottjen, who was a competitive Alpine skier in high school and college. "But I finally said yes, I'll do it, and I've loved it ever since.

"I've lived relatively authentically for most of my life, but there are still spaces I occupy where I don't disclose my identity or orientation," Bottjen said. "The league gives me a space where I can be the most authentic version of me without worry of retribution. It's a special thing."

The MGHA continues to expand. Farabaugh said the league could have 12 teams this season. Games will be played at Bob Suter's Capitol Ice Arena in Middleton, Wisconsin, 10 miles northwest of Madison. Capitol has two full sheets of ice compared to the one-sheet Hartmeyer Ice Arena, the league's former home. There will also be two divisions, one for beginners and another for advanced players.

Much is changing with MGHA, but the overall message and welcoming atmosphere for everyone will not.

"One of the things with his league is it's inclusivity, but it's inclusivity in the form of the not-being-picked-last-for-gym-class effect," Tender said. "We have a member in our league, when we're talking about changes to the league or things we're attempting to do, he says, 'As long as we don't lose that feeling, that not-being-picked-last-in-class effect, it's great.'"

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