In early January, the Firebirds staged their first-ever Pride Weekend and two already-loyal fans, Joe Cox and Adrian Rios, significantly heightened the celebration. Cox emailed the team to inquire whether the franchise might be willing to help him surprise Rios with a marriage proposal. Gina Rotolo, Firebirds vice president of communication and marketing, and Cox decided to set up the momentous occasion under the guise of a first-intermission fan contest on the ice during a Jan. 8 matinee home game.
The two have been dating since last February after getting to know each other during online conversations for the six previous months. The plan worked and Rios happily said yes. The Firebirds crowd cheered long and loud as the inaugural Pride Weekend went higher level.
'We are really excited to have an arena here," said Cox during a recent weekday phone conversation. "We've been to most of our home games. We're actually headed down there right now to go to the game tonight."
Cox said he "had some nerves going down to the ice," especially in his hope to pull off the surprise. But despite the prospect of popping the question in front of a big weekend crowd, Cox found he could lock in with Rios during an intimate moment in a decidedly public setting.
"Once I got down there [to ice level], everybody else kind of disappeared," said Cox.
For his part, Rios was caught off guard, though he realized that maybe set the whole thing in motion.
"We went to the opening game [Dec. 18] and we noticed the Firebirds were having a Pride Weekend," said Rios. "I made a stupid joke talking about, 'wouldn't it be fun if the first marriage proposal was a gay proposal?' Then Joe went to work."
Rios, who grew up in Coachella Valley, has been interested in hockey since attending Ontario Reign games on Boy Scouts nights. Ontario is the AHL affiliate for the Los Angeles Kings. Rios readily switched his allegiances this hockey season.
"I was 14 and I was watching them all the way to 18," said Rios. "Then I would go with my parents. When Joe proposed it was fun to do it in this arena with the team we both root for."
Cox grew up in Minnesota and said hockey had always been a part of his life: "I would go to Reign games [two hours drive] and occasionally the Kings [three-and-a-half hours]. I've always been interested in the sport. The Firebirds are obviously more accessible and it's exciting to have it in what is now my hometown too."